So what is selflessness, so what is selfishness?

Why does a sefless person selflessly spread his love around? Because by performing his selfless acts, he makes the ppl around him happy. ANd this in turn makes him happy. He is selfless because he wants to be happy. THus he is selfish.

Selfless = Selfish.

Simply logic.

Does love(yes, the tragic topic to discuss again) include commitment and the destitution to spend eternity together? Is the willingness to bond forever with each other a part of love as how love is a part of life?

Where one exists, the other must and where one is not, the other ain't.

Most couples do not wish to think of the future that they might possibly share. Why? Is it the fear of commitment? Or more honestly, is it the fear of not having yet "ventured" the horizons?

True love, my friend, must include you being all out to share your life with another. Because after all, that is what love is all about. Undying compassionate fuzzy feelings. Key word: undying.

So when a man does not wish to see his future with a woman nor even contemplate any single slight idea of them lasting till death do them part, how can he say that he loves her? How then can he say that he truly, truly, truly LOVE her?

Bottom line here is, I believe that only those who wish to eternally spend their lives with each other are truly in love. OF course, I may be wrong, but I'll keep to this thought till someone or a twist of fate tell me otherwise.

Ah, 'forever', too strong a word.